Common mistakes to avoid

Identify isolation risks, rebuild regular contact, find accessible community activities, and connect social needs with health and transportation support. These warning signs are intended to slow down a decision long enough to verify the facts.

Mistakes and warning signs

  • Assuming a person who lives alone is necessarily lonely—or that a person living with others is socially connected.
  • Suggesting activities without solving transportation or accessibility barriers.
  • Relying entirely on social media for meaningful support.
  • Ignoring hearing loss, grief, pain, or depression.
  • Pressuring someone into unwanted activities instead of identifying meaningful interests.
  • Waiting for a crisis before arranging routine check-ins.

Stop and verify when

  • Someone demands immediate payment, secrecy, remote computer access, or personal credentials.
  • A deadline, coverage rule, eligibility amount, or legal requirement is stated without an official source and date.
  • A provider, contractor, plan, facility, or product cannot be independently verified.
  • The total cost, cancellation terms, exclusions, or appeal rights are unclear.
  • A recommendation ignores the person’s state, disability, medical condition, caregiver situation, or transportation.
  • A website copies an agency logo but uses an unfamiliar domain.

A safer response

1. Pause the transaction or decision when possible.

2. Save the notice, advertisement, contract, message, or bill.

3. Contact the responsible agency or company through an independently verified channel.

4. Ask a trusted person or qualified professional to review the decision.

5. Report suspected fraud, abuse, unsafe care, or discrimination to the appropriate authority.

Sources for verification

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Related subjects: Mental Health, Grief, Substance Use, and Crisis Help, Accessible Transportation and Medical Travel, Internet Access, Digital Skills, Privacy, and Cybersecurity.

Last reviewed

This warning-sign guide was reviewed on 2026-07-30.