Common mistakes to avoid
Recognize current scam patterns, slow down urgent demands, protect accounts, report losses, and involve trusted help without blaming the victim. These warning signs are intended to slow down a decision long enough to verify the facts.
Mistakes and warning signs
- Trusting caller ID, email logos, or a familiar-looking website address.
- Paying to “protect” money by moving it to a government or safe account.
- Allowing remote access to a computer or phone after an unsolicited call.
- Keeping a suspicious relationship or payment secret because the caller demanded confidentiality.
- Assuming embarrassment means the incident should not be reported.
- Clicking a search advertisement without confirming that it is the official agency or company.
Stop and verify when
- Someone demands immediate payment, secrecy, remote computer access, or personal credentials.
- A deadline, coverage rule, eligibility amount, or legal requirement is stated without an official source and date.
- A provider, contractor, plan, facility, or product cannot be independently verified.
- The total cost, cancellation terms, exclusions, or appeal rights are unclear.
- A recommendation ignores the person’s state, disability, medical condition, caregiver situation, or transportation.
- A website copies an agency logo but uses an unfamiliar domain.
A safer response
1. Pause the transaction or decision when possible.
2. Save the notice, advertisement, contract, message, or bill.
3. Contact the responsible agency or company through an independently verified channel.
4. Ask a trusted person or qualified professional to review the decision.
5. Report suspected fraud, abuse, unsafe care, or discrimination to the appropriate authority.
Sources for verification
- FTC Consumer Alerts — official or established source for current details.
- Report Fraud — official or established source for current details.
- IdentityTheft.gov — official or established source for current details.
- DOJ Elder Justice — official or established source for current details.
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Last reviewed
This warning-sign guide was reviewed on 2026-07-30.